a profound problem in our society is that we don’t value care work
......... you’re drawing a fairly deep connection between the rise of contraception, abortion rights, and Roe particularly, the change in our sexual culture, the rise of single parenthood to that devaluing or lack of valuing of care work. ......... contraception and abortion create this dominance of market logic, this devaluing of the family and — I think you’re making this claim — lead women to be worse off. ........... casual sex culture has become sort of the default. And I think that tends to be better for a male sexuality. .......... it’s not to say that there aren’t alpha women who like sex on the first date or the first meeting. But all sorts of data shows us that women tend to prefer sex and actually enjoy sex much more in commitment. ........... The abortion-backed contraceptive revolution has allowed men especially to basically — gives them more reason to walk away from unexpected pregnancy. ........... that’s led to a feminization of poverty. ........... sexual economics ............single motherhood is the single greatest predictor of poverty in our country
.......... we can point to all sorts of ways in which our current economy and economic transitions have harmed men and made them incapable of being there ............ disconnecting and decoupling sex from marriage and marriage from childbearing is pretty devastating for the poor. ............. the way sex, as thought about today, is very much self-expression, is very much pleasure in mind. And I think, again, there are pretty dangerous asymmetries for women there. Because when you decouple sex from marriage and from childbearing and pleasure is left to be the only marker, that it tends to be far better for men. .......... as it turns out, for women, sex is far more pleasurable in commitment. And why in commitment? Because for sex to be pleasurable for women, there needs to be kind of a vulnerability, where a woman is relaxed enough to enjoy sex. ......... some data about the real orgasm gap that you see in the casual sex culture today ........ a real marker of the decline of good sex, both in the sense of pleasurable sex but also what she calls good or ethical sex, which I think that there’s more sex within marriage, and I think women enjoy sex better in marriage when they can be more vulnerable. .......... freeing women to have sex just like men, which is basically what the pill and abortion do, I think also hasn’t been good for women .......... men have blasts of testosterone beating through them in a way that’s different from — it’s distinguished from women. And that does tend to lend to greater sexual desire and sexual aggression, especially sex that is quicker and easier, quicker release. It’s a different kind of sex than women want. ........ you see in the sexual economic work — that the pill kind of inspires this change in sexual behavior so that there’s more sexual risk-taking both inside and outside of marriage. .......... how the early American women’s rights advocates thought about this, because I think many people now know that they were opposed to abortion. ...........they really were worried about these threats of undisciplined male sexual desire.
.......... you can bring, I think, women down to men’s standards, which is freewheeling quick sex. Or you can bring men up to women’s standards, which is actually what these women were hoping for ........ it sounds a lot like our desire not to have forced motherhood, which is a real kind of pro-choice slogan. ......... there should be abstinence during the fertile period. ........ You see all sorts of young women, actually — I hear they’re on TikTok being angry about contraception and really being interested, more interested in natural fertility regulation. ........ We want organic food. We want to take care of our bodies in all sorts of ways. And yet here we are consuming vast quantities of hormones to regulate our cycles. ............ it demands abstinence of men during certain times, that it is getting them to be more aware in their bodies just as women are every month because of menses of really the connection between sex and potential parenthood. ......... there are all sorts of signs of fertility that a woman’s body, I guess you could say, emits, things like cervical fluid, rises and falls in temperature, that indicate to the woman how fertile she is and when she could get pregnant. .......... one version is we should have the sexual ideal that is more restrained, more disciplined, more held back than what we currently have. But law — and a lot of this book is about law, and a lot of your advocacy is about law. Law is very much about what happens when things go wrong, when you have sex and maybe you wish you hadn’t, or the form of contraception you were using fails. ......... my understanding of the data is that about a quarter of people who try natural contraception of the kind you’re describing will get pregnant in the first year. ........ the best methods rival the birth control pill, are 1 percent — I mean, the birth control pill also requires a certain discipline, that you take it every day. .......... generally easy access to abortion actually tends to disincentivize contraceptive use. ....... the typical abortion patient. And it found that they have children. They’re poor. They’re unmarried. They’re in their late 20s. They have some college education. And they’re very early in pregnancy. That’s the modal person who gets an abortion. ........... I don’t know that women today, with the state of how women think in terms of that they owe men sex at having a beer, a cup of coffee, or something — that the cost of sex is so low right now that I’m not sure that I can convince women that it would be so much better for them, for their relationships, for their enjoyment of sex to go out and learn natural fertility regulation. ..........natural fertility regulation is better for women than contraception
.......... this has been bad for women, for their emotions, for all sorts of things. ........ it takes the attention off the real structural problems in the lives of the poor, whether it’s substandard health conditions, whether it’s poor housing, whether it’s neglectful or absent fathers or the fact that their fathers can’t get work and so can’t pay child support. .......... we’re putting poor women in a situation where the best we can get, the richest country in the history of the world, is to offer them the means to have abortions. .......... these choice-based arguments basically strengthen the kind of impulse of our very libertarian culture and politics to leave women with the consequences of the bargain, basically, the consequences of her having gotten pregnant. ........... the way in which we treat pregnant women in the workplace culture, massive pregnancy discrimination still, the kind of workplace conditions that especially poor women have, where they have to return to work. Many women have to return to work within like two weeks or less of giving birth. ......... you have employers, corporations, you have states talking about the corporate case for reproductive health — is that it’s a far cheaper option than accommodations for pregnancy, accommodations for caregiving. And so when they’re thinking about the bottom line, this is the way they’re going to go. ........... neither the red states or the blue states are doing a good job at this ........ because it’s much harder to have a child than walk into an abortion clinic, it becomes an easier choice for that person, one which potentially a woman then suffers regrets from. ........... have abortion restrictions and have these pro-family policies. ............ that’s the work of the pro-life movement going forward. ........ many people end up regretting abortion ....... five years on, 99% of women, 99% who had the abortion said it was the right decision for them. And they were better off on a range of other health and economic outcomes. ......... for those women who were actually denied an abortion, only one week after seeking an abortion but then being denied it, 35 percent of those women no longer wished they could have aborted. .......... the child — well, they don’t call the child — the fetus is like a trespasser on their property of their body, the self-ownership of their body, again, in a very Lockean way — and they then have this right to dispel anyone who comes through it in kind of an absolute property right ........... the child, who is a human being and is really utterly dependent on his or her mother at that time for those nine months, is the most vulnerable and the most dependent. ..........I don’t understand why it is that we could not think that there are two human beings here.
.......... a fetus at 10 weeks is different than someone at 30 weeks and doesn’t think there’s any easy way to draw the line .......... the choices people actually have to make are agonizing, and they agonize over them. And we should trust often that they know better than we do. .......... there are many women who have difficult or dangerous pregnancies. Most don’t. Most pregnancies aren’t dangerous and are natural experiences of bringing human life into the world. ........ The child who is conceived in rape has the same equal dignity, and therefore, the same sort of duties of care are owed. ........ abortion is actually kind of a second violent act against the pregnant woman. ......... somewhat unresolvable moral and philosophical and religious intuitions. ............ abortion has led to a feminization of poverty .......... marriage and having children inside a marriage has become a very important and profound class marker .......... a child’s life is taken in an abortion and that we actually owe duties to that child, that it helps reset thinking about sex itself, that I think it ought to help us take sex more seriously. .......... And that itself may empower women — I hope it would empower women — to kind of take their place again as gatekeepers of sex. And that is to expect more from men when they engage in sex, to expect commitment. Because if they do wait, if they are able to put off men and to expect more from them, to expect a greater maturity, to expect them to hold down a job, to expect them to get off their computers and get off porn and all sorts of things, that I think there could be a real maturation of men that is required. ............... and then, as the economists say, raise the cost of sex. ....... How opioids have been treated versus how crack was treated is very, very, very telling. .......... European countries have lower marriage rates than we do. And there is a lot of evidence, I think, at this point that pretty unchecked capitalism and a lot of inequality is a real driver of family breakdown in poor communities. ........... massive incarceration is a massive problem because of the way in which it pulls fathers away from their children. To me, it seems like it’s not just the poor who need self-discipline. It’s all of us who need self-discipline. ........... our equal human capacity for moral development. .......... there’s this kind of new antinatalism, this new people deciding ex ante that they never want to become parents. .......... for eons and eons, what human beings have seen is that becoming a mother or father really develops the person, requires a great movement away from the focus on self toward another .......... the kind of quest for autonomy tends to leaves people really empty, tends to leave people literally alone.We have a loneliness epidemic.
the family is not parasitic on the market. The market is parasitic on the family. .......... policies that prioritize what she said was the family claim over the social claim. .......... now that you mentioned I was a Bernie supporter. But I was studying sociology, women’s studies, and then moved toward political theory in college. ............ a responsive community must act to smooth the path for parents so that the joys of family life might be more easily felt and its burdens more fairly borne. ......... the caring for children and the work of the home is something that all of society benefits from. ............ the idea of spreading costs of child rearing more fully across societies is, I think, a just kind of thing. And so thinking of the market as something that serves families and not just that families serve the market I think is a good way to think about it. .......... workplace flexibility is a really, really important one and predictable scheduling. ........ upper echelons of workers have this knit into their work and that those who are low-wage workers really — it’s the just-in-time scheduling, where they’re given their schedules barely a week ahead of time and have all sorts of difficult childcare predicaments ............. there should really just be a lot more workplace flexibility just as a humane kind of standard. ......... parents really should not be economically disadvantaged by raising children. .......... a man on the moon with government priorities. Why aren’t we prioritizing the really important work that takes place in the home? And so those are some of the basic things that I would say. .......... my time as a women’s studies student at Middlebury CollegeNepal thanks you. :)
— Paramendra Kumar Bhagat (@paramendra) June 7, 2022
In the very long run, BeLimitLess just might end up being your greatest contribution.
— Paramendra Kumar Bhagat (@paramendra) June 7, 2022
Email sent through that form. Looking forward.
— Paramendra Kumar Bhagat (@paramendra) June 7, 2022
Even the current baby formula supply chain shortage is entirely man-made and manipulated to enrich the four baby formula companies rather than provide simple solutions. https://t.co/cE1gX7682u
— Gurbaksh Singh Chahal (@gchahal) June 6, 2022
I stand behind Alec Baldwin. Because no way in hell am I gonna stand in front of him
— Josh Waller (@WallerJosh92) June 7, 2022
people complain twitter doesn’t know how to get revenue like bro, calling elon musk’s bluff is multi-BILLION dollar revenue
— david phelps (🐮,🐮)(🃏,🃏) (@divine_economy) June 7, 2022
I lost power 2x on Saturday (first for 45 min, then just a few) and it took less than 90 seconds to emotionally spiral. Why is Texas like this ::sobs::
— Elisa Sepúlveda 🐴 (@MissElisaS) June 7, 2022
Zoomers really do talk like those memes. I know this because it’s summer now and they’re all at the racquet club.
— Rachel (@tolstoybb) June 7, 2022
I built a product using @bubble in 2 days
— Zubair Lutfullah Kakakhel (@zubairlk_nocode) June 7, 2022
Got 100 paying users in 3 days from a reddit post
Number 1 on @ProductHunt in 9 days
Got 100k from a lifetime deal on @AppSumo
Ranked 1 for SEO
Sold on @microacquire for 8 figures after 30 days
Then I woke up...
Patience guys
Enjoy
Internet does not forgive pic.twitter.com/ch0Ausc1L0
— Kateryna_Kruk (@Kateryna_Kruk) June 7, 2022
We continue to call on Congress to make Roe v. Wade the law, which would protect your right to make decisions about your own body without the government interfering.
— Kamala Harris (@KamalaHarris) June 7, 2022
It takes 7 meetings in an average to convert pitch into a formal term sheet.
— Mehta Sanjay (@mehtasanjay) June 7, 2022
#startup #investors #founders #success
If it makes you feel better I just talked to a startup that has raised $13 Million that is scrambling from forgetting to renew its $10/month domain name.
— Austen Allred (@Austen) June 7, 2022
In small startups nothing just happens automatically. Every single thing is intentional.
CEOs in 2021: “Our stock is undervalued trading at only 75x PE”
— Genevieve Roch-Decter, CFA (@GRDecter) June 7, 2022
CEOs in 2022: “We may have enough cash to last us 3-4 months”
startups that turn every dollar of spend into multiple dollars of enterprise value will always attract VCs
— 👨🏻💻☕️ (@hunterwalk) June 7, 2022
startups that turn every dollar of spend into multiple dollars of profit won't need VCs
🧘♂️
Annual gun violence in America = 15 9/11s every year.
— Michelle Greer (@michellegreer) June 8, 2022
Legislation after 9/11: Patriot Act, tons of TSA changes, approval for trillion dollar wars
Legislation after countless gun deaths: open carry laws, assault weapons ban expired https://t.co/9p5QIEVoTm
What you DON’T NEED to launch your startup:
— Xavier Coiffard (@AngeZanetti) June 8, 2022
1. Swag
2. A logo
3. Investors
4. Code skills
5. An company
6. Leave your job
What else?
Hello @KathrynParsons Sita: A Novel About Women Spanning Five Generations And Two
— Paramendra Kumar Bhagat (@paramendra) June 8, 2022
Geographies #crowdfundhttps://t.co/Ibusw7YuC4
Pitch in, please!
Welcome to SF @SadiqKhan 🎉 Good luck throwing out the first pitch for @SFGiants tonight ⚾️ If it’s as good as your pitch for London I’m sure it was a winner 🇺🇸 🇬🇧 Thanks to @SHACK15sf for hosting so many epic female founders! cc @londonpartners #londonisopen @janetcoyle2 pic.twitter.com/bZwUlphCVF
— Kathryn Parsons (@KathrynParsons) May 11, 2022
How news changes......
— Paramendra Kumar Bhagat (@paramendra) June 8, 2022
there's a dissonance in the common thesis around decentralized social networks
— d.mirror.xyz 🪞 (@Iiterature) June 8, 2022
i think you need a killer app/client with product-market fit first, focused on users
then it becomes attractive for devs to build new clients
otherwise you get a bunch of hackathon-grade demo apps
Putin has made his beliefs and goals clear: Total conquest of Ukraine and then onward. He has set Russia on the path of perpetual war. No more cowardly interpretations from Western leaders still pathetically hoping for a return to the Feb 23 status quo. https://t.co/Fqdgbd5IFJ
— Garry Kasparov (@Kasparov63) June 10, 2022
Putin's hunger plan is also meant to generate refugees from North Africa and the Middle East, areas usually fed by Ukraine. This would generate instability in the EU. 13/16
— Timothy Snyder (@TimothyDSnyder) June 11, 2022
In normal times, Ukraine is a leading exporter of foodstuffs. A Russian naval blockade now prevents Ukraine from exporting grain. 2/16
— Timothy Snyder (@TimothyDSnyder) June 11, 2022
Great thread on what it’s like living under Russian occupation.
— Euan MacDonald (@Euan_MacDonald) June 11, 2022
Anyone advocating Ukraine giving up land for “peace” should know that it would not simply mean Ukraine giving up land, but its people - giving them to the horror of Russian occupation.
And that would be immoral. https://t.co/b4QEtHpf6Z
Reminder that inflation is high in EVERY advanced economy, not just in America. Blame Covid and Russia's invasion of Ukraine. It has nothing to do with Biden, and anyone who says otherwise is either ignorant or lying.
— Tristan Snell (@TristanSnell) June 11, 2022
FYI: Ukraine’s top Muslim leader mufti Sayid Ismagilov has recently left his post to fully concentrate on fighting Russian invasion.
— Illia Ponomarenko 🇺🇦 (@IAPonomarenko) June 11, 2022
He’s a full-swing combat paramedic now. And he’s originally from Donetsk. pic.twitter.com/bJD7uQpAMU
The heavy weapon crisis in Ukraine has reached a critical juncture. The UK and Poland are going above and beyond. Scholz is delaying and lying. The US still won't make its war goals clear and is sending less than promised and much less than Ukraine needs.
— Garry Kasparov (@Kasparov63) June 9, 2022
We cannot stand by while Russian long-range artillery flattens cities and kills innocent civilians.
— Boris Johnson (@BorisJohnson) June 6, 2022
The UK will gift the Ukrainian Armed Forces multiple-launch rocket systems so they can effectively repel the continuing Russian onslaught. https://t.co/kuwrwUUPWo
Great analysis by @nohodge for @CNN
— Mikhail Khodorkovsky (English) (@mbk_center) June 11, 2022
What the 🤡 Putin is aiming for in Ukraine is the restoration of Russia as an imperial power, and it's sure the endgame for the boss and his Kremlin mafia state https://t.co/8RWYh7h9DC
Just imagine: we in Ukraine lose friends and loved ones. Our home towns are raised to the ground. Dozens of soldiers are killed in action every day. Mass graves and executions.
— Illia Ponomarenko 🇺🇦 (@IAPonomarenko) June 11, 2022
And meanwhile bored galaxy brains are whining about their governments sending defense aid to us.
Crazy fucking night. Thought we're gonna get overrun twice, but we held, we held. And it's finally morning of a new day. I need a cigarette.
— Canadian Ukrainian Volunteer 🇺🇦🇨🇦✊🏻 (@CanadianUkrain1) June 11, 2022
Glory to #Ukraine 🇺🇦✊🏻
- Steve pic.twitter.com/YOjyAQUKq3
We cannot allow Ukraine to lose. The free world must be more aggressive and creative in giving Ukrainians the means to push back Putin's invading army.
— Michael McFaul (@McFaul) June 10, 2022
There are 37,000 women fighting in the ranks of the #Armed Forces of Ukraine, more than 1,000 women have become commanders since the beginning of the war. We have a priviledge to fight alongside our men, and we bow to every man and woman fighting for our freedom today. pic.twitter.com/CA4ENBmTLA
— Kira Rudik (@kiraincongress) June 11, 2022
When will Western Countries realize that Ukraine will not win this war unless the military help is dramatically increased?
— Ukraine Battle Map (@ukraine_map) June 11, 2022
BREAKING: The European Parliament announces it is firmly behind Ukraine's EU candidacy bid
— Samuel Ramani (@SamRamani2) June 10, 2022
BREAKING NEWS: In a huge slap in the face to Russian President Vladimir Putin and the Kremlin, Russian climber Katya Lipka climbs Mount Everest and unfurls the Ukrainian flag at the summit. RT TO THANK KATYA FOR HAVING THE GUTS TO STAND WITH UKRAINE!
— Occupy Democrats (@OccupyDemocrats) June 8, 2022
Every day that Putin's army keeps killing in Ukraine, leaders of the free world need to be executing new policies -- every day -- to stop this barbaric invasion: more & better weapons delivered faster, and more & better sanctions.
— Michael McFaul (@McFaul) June 10, 2022
Now that Putin has clearly stated that he views himself as Peter the Great and is interested only in endless wars of conquest, can we stop appeasing and get Ukraine what it needs to win?
— Paul Massaro (@apmassaro3) June 10, 2022
Ukrainian high school graduates return to their former school in Chernihiv for a yearbook photo-shoot.
— Visegrád 24 (@visegrad24) June 11, 2022
Pictures for the grandkids so that they too will know what Russia has done to Ukraine.
🇺🇦 pic.twitter.com/AdUyay3dxS
It’s a beautiful day in Odesa, Ukraine. pic.twitter.com/uaED44eIVT
— Visegrád 24 (@visegrad24) June 11, 2022
Putin's speech yesterday made clear that Russia's territorial expansion is his goal. He does not recognize any rules or agreements. NATO enlargement was not a cause but a hinder to him. Putin needs to be stopped with arms. The West needs to give Ukraine all it needs!
— Anders Åslund (@anders_aslund) June 10, 2022
Zelenskyy has spoken categorically about negotiations with Russia
— NEXTA (@nexta_tv) June 11, 2022
According to him, it was necessary to talk with Rashists on a daily basis, impose sanctions before the full-scale invasion of Ukraine.
Today the world, according to his conviction, should put Russia in its place. pic.twitter.com/CJscBlkdBu
Paul McCartney has switched Ukrainian flag for a guitar painted in Ukrainian colors to make sure his position of support to Ukraine is even more apparent.
— Anton Gerashchenko (@Gerashchenko_en) June 11, 2022
Thank you, Sir, for your true friendship!
🇺🇦 #StandWithUkraine pic.twitter.com/UfsyXlTwMR
Cemeteries of Mariupol.
— Illia Ponomarenko 🇺🇦 (@IAPonomarenko) June 10, 2022
Three month ago this was one of Ukraine’s fastest growing and comfortable cities.
Now it a giant uninhabitable heap of ruins surrounded by graves. https://t.co/yTER2UAsxe
"Glory to Ukraine!" - This is how Ursula @vonderleyen ended her speech at a meeting with Volodymyr @ZelenskyyUa in #Kyiv. Today they are discussing #Ukraine's way to the #EU. pic.twitter.com/eFQ5qJhmrf
— NEXTA (@nexta_tv) June 11, 2022
⚡️ Ambassador: Germany increased imports from Russia by 60% in first four months of 2022.
— The Kyiv Independent (@KyivIndependent) June 10, 2022
According to Andriy Melnyk, Ukraine’s ambassador to Germany, Russia’s imports to Germany reached 6 billion euros. “This is madness,” said Melnyk.
Deputy of Def intelligence of #Ukraine, Skibitsky: - The Donbas is an artillery battle
— Giorgi Revishvili (@revishvilig) June 10, 2022
- 🇺🇦 has one artillery piece for 10-15 🇷🇺 ones
- 🇺🇦 uses 5,000-6,000 shells per day.
- 🇺🇦 almost used its ammo & now using NATO standard shells
- UA urgently needs weapons. #ArmUkraineNow pic.twitter.com/J82JkR5JD3
This is the moment #Ukraine needs our help more than ever. Double down. If Russia doesn’t lose they will continue to destroy Europe. Step it Up. I’m worried how quiet the White House has been on Ukraine the last few weeks.
— Adam Kinzinger🇺🇦🇺🇸✌️ (@AdamKinzinger) June 11, 2022
Ukraine, a solid parliamentary democracy, was already on a good track before Russia invaded.
— Ursula von der Leyen (@vonderleyen) June 11, 2022
This war is an enormous stress test.
And the whole country is stepping up.
The same spirit is needed to reform and modernise the country.
And Europe is here to support you. pic.twitter.com/aGzqp5NNSN
Jack Dorsey announces 'Web 5', a new platform built on Bitcoin blockchain - The Indian Express https://t.co/QdcgmZJr97
— Floati (@Floati_io) June 11, 2022
Jack Dorsey announces ‘Web 5’, a new platform built on Bitcoin blockchain Web5 is developed by The Block Head (TBH), one of the Bitcoin business units at Dorsey’s Block (formerly Square). ....... Web5 is developed by The Block Head (TBH), one of the Bitcoin business units at Dorsey’s Block (formerly Square). The platform brings decentralized identity and data storage to applications. “It lets developers focus on creating delightful user experiences while returning ownership of data and identity to individuals,” according to the company. ........ To the Twitter co-founder, Web 3 isn’t truly “decentralized” or owned by its users, but instead by various venture capitalists and limited partners ........ this web platform is built to provide two core use cases: individuals will have the ability to “own their data”, and they will be able to “control their identity”. These use cases will be supported by wallets, decentralized web nodes (DWNS), and decentralized web apps (DWAS). .......... “there are no tokens to invest in with web5.”