Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Child Adoptions: My Number One Reason To Be For Gay Marriage


I am not going to tell the gays I feel their pain. The conclusions I reach are as a matter of political discourse. And I feel like just like the women and the ethnic minorities, the gays - the sexual minorities - are part of the social justice coalition. So there is obvious camaraderie.

The anti abortion crowd should be the strongest for gay marriage, since there will be more adoptions and fewer abortions possible. I am not for abortion. It is just that I don't think it should be made illegal. Keep it legal but rare. Keep it legal and move the debate onto the larger social challenge of keeping the numbers small. Find common ground.

I have met homophobic black people. I have told them their attitudes help me understand the concrete white sentiments that kept segregation alive back in the days. Half a century from now, we are also going to look dumb and primitive on gay rights. Oh, those straight folks in 2006, those weirdos had weird thoughts for sure. Oh, their attitudes. That is how the straight people in 2050 are going to talk about us.

It is not true there is too much love in this world. More marriages will be just fine.

Only a few days before the election I showed up at a DL21C event. This was not your usual snazzy DL21C event. This was obscure, on the Upper West Side, in a small room, and David claimed he was a panelist/speaker at a DL21C event after having been president of the organization for 17 years. That is another thing I don't understand about the progressive organizations in Manhattan. They run like monarchies. I don't think they hold elections. Do they even have constitutions? There was this Empire State Pride Agenda guy. Impressive smarts. And, also, at the event I learned David is a Harvard guy. All these Harvard guys. Justin and the DL David are also Harvard guys. So the Pride Agenda guy gets introduced. And when it is David Pollak's turn, he kicks back in mock horror: "Must my resume be compared to his!" He has that endearing quality. Also he comes across as someone who never combs his hair. "I have spitmarks in my face from this discussion I had with Rahm Immanuel recently as to why we don't have a clear agenda for after we take over."

And also Sean Maloney. He has great kid stories. He is gay. A high profile gay. (Sean Maloney)



Let's empty the orphanages. Let's get the gay people to start having kids in legal marriages. The beauty of gay marriages is that these folks, by definition, can not have their own biological kids. And so if they want full blown families, they are going to adopt.

We should rework the vocabulary. We should stop calling the anti gay marriage people that. We should start calling them anti adoption.

It is not pro life. It is anti choice. I am pro life myself. When a woman choses not to get an abortion, I am also for that. That is still a valid choice in my book.

The anti adoption fundies.

On The Web

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[PDF] Petition for Adoption Child Adult
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Child Welfare Information Gateway
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Next Stop: White House


When I heard people in Montana want a recount, I am thinking, they just want the media limelight. If Florida and Ohio can have it, why not us?

I think the Senate has also gone Democratic, and Washington is ready for a new direction. The most immediate fallout will be on the Iraq front. It is not just Al Qaeda stuff out there. There is also a lot of nationalist resenment of a foreign invasion.

The troops have to come back fast in a way that the country holds on.

But the most important thing about this victory is that 2006 is a springboard for 2008. The cons got the Supreme Court. The progressives need to take over and keep the other two branches for a generation.

I think Obama is going to declare in January that he is running for president. Hillary can not do it that early. She will have to wait until at least after summer, likely October, Bill Clinton's preferred month. That gives Obama an edge.

They are both on great personal terms and I admire them both greatly, so there will be no personal attacks. But there will be necessary debate on policy specifics. That will be good for the party and the country.

I don't know which of them is going to be president, but I do know both are going to be on the ticket.

There is this Clinton Machine in place. But Obama need not fear that. His grassroots effort will be much bigger than Dean's was.

On November 7: In Harlem: For Obama
Democratic Vision For The 21st Century

Victory Party

So I went to the victory party.

Events To November 7 Victory

I have an hour of video from the event. People in the room were obviously the most active members of the top progressive organizations in town, especially the young crowd. David Pollak who calls himself the "oldest kid" introduced the speaker later in the evening. He mentioned a few groups, but not Drinking Liberally, and I wonder why the Manhattan Young Democrats were not on the roster. They perhaps wanted to celebrate after the slow counts and recounts are in. They are doing it tonight, on their own. I might go.

Drinking Liberally has a much larger national presence than any group that was present. So I thought it was odd the group did not get mentioned. I think the basic idea behind it is so simple and so great, it is really going to take off over the years.

But I got them all on video. And some DFNYC folks. Many random folks. There is quite some footage of David and Justin talking to each other.

DFNYC was the loudest bunch. Charles of DFNYC was the only person I interviewed for my videoblog.

"How are you feeling?"

"I am happy."

"Why are you happy?"

"Because we won."

End of interview.

Watching TV can get tiring, especially when the first few hours the results are not even in. I kept thinking it would have been better to track the results online. But then the crowd warmed up, and it was all so great.

I captured a lot of the excitement on video. I was dressed in all black, my hair very neatly combed. I had a black sweater instead of a shirt beneath my jacket. Looks like I dislike more than the tie, I also dislike the collar. I was sitting on a window sill, a chair above a chair. That gave me a great view of the entire bar. I also got some people on the pavement on video, people watching TV from outside. On the outside, peering in, like the minorities.

It was a mostly white crowd. White, young, progressive, relatively rich. I am not there yet, the rich part. But I will be there. $100,000 is not rich. It is upper middle income. The trajectory, by definition, has to be unconventional. Out of the box thinking. I also test people's progressive badge. Are you really?

There is this scene in a James Bond movie. The guy zooms a camera onto the "v" neck of the blouse of a secretary working. There is about three seconds of that in my video. I want it on record that the idea was not original.

On the pesonal side. There was a nonevent that should have been an event. I got tonguetied. It happened in a flash. The number one reason I went to this party. What tells me I am cut for entrepreneurship, not politics.

Carly Fiorina: The Academy Awards Of Business: Photos
Carly Fiorina: "The Academy Awards Of Business"

Politics, Business

Maybe I am not cut for politics. I don't have the patience. I watch politics like some people watch sports. And staying political keeps me sharp in the group dynamics department which is one third of business, the other two being vision and engineering.

I am not American, I am a netizen. Politics is in America.

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